“Anita is truly extraordinary!
I have been single for over a year now and wanted to truly seek advice as to how I can remain assertive, keep my integrity, and be in a healthy and loving relationship. She exudes self-confidence and is such a positive light to any situation. I am truly happy I know her and I am blessed to now be in a fun-loving committed relationship now with just a few magic tips she shared with me.”
(Update, engaged and preparing for a dream wedding in Paris – Summer 2017)Roxi H.
“I am a true SAFI (Strong and Fiercely Independent Woman)
I have been in an unhealthy relationship for the past 11 years. I say unhealthy because of my insecurities that have caused a strain in my relationship. Anita really made me realize my worth and taught me different exercises to implement with my significant other. I have seen a difference in my relationship. Her advice was so helpful and I love that she speaks from her own experiences.
Thanks to Anita, every day I strive to be a SAFI (Strong and Fiercely Independent Women).
(Update – As of February 2017 Cindy recognized her worth and ended her relationship. Not because she didn’t love him anymore, but because she loved HERSELF more and realized that she deserved more.)
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I've been in the business of dating and relationships for over 17 years!!!
In my quest to learn more about my failed relationships, why I was attracted to a certain type and what I could do to protect my heart from further pain…I cut off ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING to do with a man…including God. I blamed him for not looking out for me or protecting me from the knuckleheads I had been dating and subsequently married.
Funny thing is, during this time I wandered into areas of my heart I had never met before. I faced truths I never wanted to face and I spent more time learning about me, the who-what-why-and- how that it became my life’s mission to assist other women in doing the same If I can do ALL of this for myself…I can do it for you!!!
What my time in the "dating wilderness" taught me...
There was a time that I led with my sex appeal. If you looked at me long enough, then you MUST have been interested! What a nut job I was…but not dealing with the pain put me in situations I should have never been in and played hundreds of tricks with my mind and my heart. I needed the “time off.”
The time off was hard but was extremely good for me. I learned that while I thought it was the other person’s fault, I too was responsible for the quality of love (or lack thereof) that I had attracted and allowed into my life. Once this became clear, and after working with my very own Metaphysician, I embarked upon my degree in Metaphysics with a concentration in interpersonal relationships.
As a result, I began to view my past relationships differently. I saw the lessons, I endured plenty of “dark nights of the soul” in order to find my way to the man of my dreams and finally be living the quality of love that I have always wanted. But FIRST, I had to get out of my own way, face my truths and work with someone to help me connect to myself and my truth, mind body and spirit.
Why should you work with me?
Because I’ve not only read about it, studied about it … but I’ve lived it. I was so beat down by relationship/marriage failures that I even contemplated taking my own life…but you know what…I’m still here.
I know how hard it can be. I understand how difficult it is to open your heart again, especially after having loved, trusted and then been disappointed and heartbroken…who ELSE would you rather work with?
Let’s talk! Check your schedule and then click the contact button below to set up your Complimentary Discovery Session. The Summer is my busy season so if I were you, I’d get your time scheduled as soon as possible!
Your Dating and Relationship Coach,