PODCAST EPISODE № 80

It Is Possible to Attract a Mate That Can Cover You & Handle Your Success!

by Anita Charlot

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In this episode, I will share as many resources as possible, from…

Healing from a broken heart, to…
Identifying the spirit of the person that is perfectly imperfect for you, to…
The difference between dating as a grown woman vs. a grown-ass woman…

…All to help you be successful in love without losing yourself in the process.

If, after reviewing these resources, you could use a coach to help you attract (and keep) the love you want without sacrificing your soul, I will share the link to my website, where you can learn about the Executive Relationship Coaching programs I offer.

Having been a dating, relationship, and marriage coach for Executive Women for over 20 years, February has a special place in my heart. It is marketed as the month of love, which carries a wide range of emotions and actually causes a lot of angst, anxiety, and even depression for those that find themselves single during this holiday.

Isn’t it time you attracted a healthy relationship with a significant other who is not intimidated by your success nor wants you to dim your light to receive their love?

If this is something you might be interested in, see you inside the episode…

What You Learn:

That if you suffer from anxiety or depression around this time of year, you’re not alone!
Some excellent resources to help you, as an Executive Woman, attract and keep your ‘perfectly imperfect’ person
Why you should choose an Executive Relationship coach to help you along your journey
How to attract a healthy relationship with a significant other who is not intimidated by your success nor wants you to dim your light to receive their love

Featured on the Show:

Access the workshop 5 Ways to Spiritually & Emotionally Disconnect From Your Ex
Click here to listen to Episode 34: How to Heal from a Broken Heart
Purchase my book, The 5 Phases of Dating: The Grown-Ass Woman’s Guide to Attracting and Maintaining Authentic Relationships
Click here to access Can He Handle Your Grind? my free masterclass with a downloadable workbook
Learn more about my one-on-one Executive Relationship Coaching
Why Hire an Executive Relationship Coach? Click here to learn more
Check out my newsletter titled “Did You Know” on LinkedIn that covers Leadership and Personal Development Topics for Women, teaching you how to lead confidently and consciously using practical and spiritual concepts.
Begin your healing journey by joining the Relationship Architect Academy and find the support you need today!
Get on the Waitlist for my upcoming community for healing and supporting my Black and Brown sisters!
Reach out to me on our Contact Page
Learn more about how you can work directly with me
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As an Executive Coach for Women, Professional Speaker, Corporate Metaphysician™, Author of The 5 Phases of Dating – The Grown-Ass Woman’s Guide to Attracting and Maintaining Authentic Relationships, and the Creator of The Happy Executive Woman™…

Anita teaches women of color how to heal from past relationships and corporate trauma, increase their confidence and improve their leadership skills.

She is a board member of the Women Impact Network and Women In Technology, where she focuses on coordinating and creating professional development training for the members.

Anita also coaches White allies on how to ACTivate Your Privilege!™ and is hired to speak and train as The Corporate Metaphysician™ at organizations willing to begin reversing corporate America’s trauma by taking an honest look at their “unconscious DEI efforts,” all using practical and metaphysical concepts.

Upcoming Speaking Engagements:

No alt text provided for this image — Flourish Media Conference 2/17 – 2/18 Miami, Florida
Topic & Workshop: How To Heal From Workplace Trauma for Black and Brown Women

Recently featured in…

ValientCEO Magazine!

Speaker’s Magazine

For all coaching, media, or consulting inquiries, don’t hesitate to contact Anita at https://anitacharlot.com/contact.

To learn more about how to partner with Anita, go to https://anitacharlot.com/services.

To join the waiting list for the upcoming For My Black and Brown Sisters monthly membership community, go to bit.ly/formyblackandbrownsisters

Episode Transcript

If, after reviewing these resources, you could use a coach to help you attract (and keep) the love you want without sacrificing your soul, I will share the link to my website, where you can learn about the Executive Relationship Coaching programs I offer.

Having been a dating, relationship, and marriage coach for Executive Women for over 20 years, February has a special place in my heart. It is marketed as the month of love, which carries a wide range of emotions and actually causes a lot of angst, anxiety, and even depression for those that find themselves single during this holiday.

Isn’t it time you attracted a healthy relationship with a significant other who is not intimidated by your success nor wants you to dim your light to receive their love? 
If this is something you might be interested in, see you inside the episode…

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In my years solely focusing on relationships, here are a few things I know about the Valentine’s Day holiday blues:
Many will go into debt trying to buy a gift to show how much they love their significant other.
Some will weigh the love of their partner by the amount of money they spend on a gift/trip.
Others dread the holiday alone due to a recent breakup or loss of a loved one.
Quite a few will measure their worth by their partner’s complaints, past or present. 
So how do you handle this time of year if you are single? What is one thing you can do as a single woman that would be a perfect activity for you at this time? What can you do if you’re tired of praying about it and need to do something about it?

You can get crystal clear on the spirit of the person that is perfectly imperfect for you.

Let’s start by first acknowledging, then healing your broken heart. Since each of you is different, your needs may differ regarding healing.

I am going to share two resources to help you.

First, you need to go to Episode 34: How to Heal a Broken Heart, and if, after that episode, you need to take things a bit deeper and “do something,” I’m going to place a link in the show notes to the course 5 Ways to Spiritually and Emotionally Disconnect From Your Ex.

After you’ve acknowledged and started the healing process, you will want to get very clear on the quality of the person you want to attract into your life. What type of personality do they need to have that makes you feel seen, heard, adored, cared for, supported, and celebrated and is a safe place to return to after a difficult day of dealing with workplace trauma?

I like to use the word “attract” vs. find because, as a busy woman, what you want is someone that will be a compliment to your life NOT a complication. Nor do you want to take your chances on being “chosen” by someone that may look good TO YOU but is not good FOR YOU. You must know what you want and how to articulate it so that you can weed through the “mess” faster than before.

But how do you know what this type of healthy relationship looks like? Especially if you’ve never experienced it or witnessed it growing up.

Maybe in the past, you’ve been clear on what you wanted. You expressed yourself early on in the dating game, or as some people say you laid it all out on the table… or so you thought, yet they acted like they understood, played along for a while, and then started to change.

You need to figure out why you keep attracting the same type of person in different clothing.

In my book The 5 Phases of Dating ~ The Grown-Ass Woman’s Guide to Attracting and Maintaining Authentic Relationships, I walk you through several exercises in the beginning that help you through this process. One of the exercises is called “Your 3-Lists; The Must Haves, The Can Compromise On, and The Hell Naws!” I also share several pages worth of dating scenarios showing the difference between how a Grown Woman would handle a particular situation and how a Grown-Ass woman would handle it. You want to make sure to take advantage of this.

In my one-on-one Executive Relationship Coaching sessions, we have spent as many as six weeks digging up and removing the “old and faulty programming” from relationships past to uncover what a client TRULY wants and needs in a significant other.

For this reason, and to help more women start on the path to attracting the right one while, at the same time, being able to identify them quickly, I decided to create a free masterclass with a downloadable workbook called “Can He Handle Your Grind?” That will also be in the show notes.

In this free video masterclass, I go deep into each of the three lists, providing examples and explaining how to use practical and metaphysical concepts to help you attract the love you really want. I’m going to ask you – once you get to the page, make sure you bookmark it so you don’t have to re-register to gain access again. If done right, if you do all the assignments, if you follow all the prompts, you will not be able to finish it in one sitting, so you want to bookmark the page so that you can go back to it.

All the tools I’ve shared with you in this episode will help bring awareness to the possible reasons why your relationships have not worked in the past.

While you may have thought you were clear in what you wanted, expressing that to your suitors may have sent mixed signals.

Do you have to change who you are to attract and maintain a loving relationship? Not exactly. You need to get clear on what has been standing in your way, begin working on healing in those areas, get clear on what you want in a relationship, and understand what it looks, feels like, and sounds like so that when you are in communication with a prospect, you can identify their dating potential without wasting any more of your time, energy, emotions or in some cases, resources.

I’m also going to add a link to the episode explaining Why You Should Choose (or listen to) An Executive Relationship Coach for Women in the show notes. With over 20 years in the relationship coaching business, I have a proven track record in my personal and client’s lives; healthy-authentic relationships are my superpower.

Want to read a few testimonials and learn more about the Executive Relationship Coaching programs or more about the Keeping It Sexy 5-day Challenge (my favorite challenge to teach)? Go to the services page on my website, click on Individual in the dropdown, and then select “Executive Relationship Coaching.”

You should never have to jump through hoops or accept any abuse or disrespect to receive love. You need to know what you want and how to attract it.

You need to know what type of signals you’re sending where they’re getting mixed up and how to clear that up…
And if you need help with that, you know where to find me.

To your dating, relationship, and marital success!!!

Until next time…

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It Is Possible to Attract a Mate That Can Cover You & Handle Your Success!

PODCAST EPISODE № 80

It Is Possible to Attract a Mate That Can Cover You & Handle Your Success!

by Anita Charlot

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PODCAST EPISODE № 80

It Is Possible to Attract a Mate That Can Cover You & Handle Your Success!

by Anita Charlot

Click the ICON below to listen to It Is Possible to Attract a Mate That Can Cover You & Handle Your Success!:

What You Learn:

Featured on the Show:

Upcoming Speaking Engagements:

Episode Transcript

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